A comfortable bike saddle is not simply the widest or softest one on the shelf. First notice where pressure falls during a ride and consider the position you normally use. An upright city-bike posture loads the pelvis differently from a forward-leaning position. One size therefore cannot suit everyone, and a label aimed at a particular gender is not, by itself, a reliable way to choose.
A sit-bone measurement offers a starting point for saddle width, not a final verdict. Shape, nose design and any pressure on soft tissue matter too. A cut-out or channel helps some riders, while others may prefer a different surface shape. The strongest comparison is a ride with several options on your own bicycle, where a shop offers trial saddles or an exchange scheme. A moment sitting on a saddle in the shop will not reveal what a normal journey does.
Before buying another model, check the position of the saddle you already have. Height, distance from the bars and tilt all affect comfort; make small changes one at a time so the result is clear. Padded cycling shorts may reduce friction but cannot replace a suitable saddle and riding position. If discomfort continues after careful adjustment, an experienced bike fitter can assess the whole position rather than treating the saddle as an isolated part.